Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Girls, girls, girls!












Oh my Girls!! they are better than I expected them to be.


I always thought my girls would be the best-behaved, girly girls there could be and although they are not the best behaved they sure are very girly girls.


Velani was well-behaved while in the womb. She was quiet when she was born and didn't cry or make a fuss. She would just look around the room silently. At church she was the best-behaved, she wasn't like all those other kids crying and running around. I thought I had made it, my dream of having good kids was fullfilled, that is, until Mia was conceived.


Mia was the total opposite. She was always moving around and kicking me as hard as she possible could while in the womb. There were many nights that I couldn't sleep because of her. When she was born she cried and cried. At church, she wasn't well-behaved and she WAS like those other kids who cried and wanted to just run around.


She eventually took over Velani and convinced her it was the best thing ever to drive mommy crazy.


Now, as I am writing this, my girls are playing and bringing out their toys into the living room, which drives me crazy, but I couldn't have asked for anything better. Even though I may feel like a crazy, mad woman most of the time, they are just Great! They are also funny and it's quite interesting how these two girls are the ones who make me mad, cry and scream, but are also the ones who make me happy, cry of joy, and laugh so hard. The way they say and do things fill me with an unexplicable joy. It really is better that what I dreamt it would be.


I don't know if I am quite ready for another child though because I think these two girls have yet alot to teach me about patience before the other one comes, but I really do want to have more. I have recently joked with my mother about not having anymore kids, but we both know that that's just not true.


I guess I wouldn't mind having all girls because these two, I tell ya, are a hoot!


Velani is the sweet one, the lovable one, the sentimental one, just like her mamma and Mia is the tough one, the bossy one, the pinching and biting type of one, just like....well, I really don't know who she is like, but both of them rock my world (literally).


So just imagine my home.......lot's of drama because of these girls!

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